its 38th week for little Doudou....

he is still feeling cozy inside mummy's tummy...

no sign of coming out...

only getting bigger and bigger...

havent gained lots of weight for this time.. most of my weight went to him...

so worried if he gets too big and will be hard for me to give labour....

38th week... 3659g head 9.8cm

daddy said Doudou just like mummy with a big head... aii...

i thought i told him to be just like Stella...

look cute like Stella, be smart like Stella...

but east more and sleeps more and grows taller than her....

guess he listened to the 2nd part....hahah

mummy is back with walking in penguin style again...

Stella got fever on the 28th of Dec 2009...

we thought it was another flu she caught from the unstable weather...

but... the fever last 3 days... and she got worse...

not eating not drinking on the 30th....

that afternoon, i arranged to see the Doc at the hospital...

took her to the hospital in a rush.. kidnapped my mom in law to go with us...

by the time we got to the ER, Stella's temperature got to 40.3 degree C

SHOCKED.... doc said its better for her to stay in the hospital...

let them take care of her...

Doc checked her up, and explained it should be some virus infection...

so Stella took some blood tests... and "wired up" with a huge bottle of saline solution on her tiny hand...

she was crying so bad... screaming mummy and grandma....and she wants to go home...

it was so terrible... like ripping my heart away...

but i couldn't cry... coz my daughter needs me more...

then we been sent up to the room...

such an active baby being tide up can't move freely was such a painful thing for her...

crying "mummy i wanna to go home..." still....

until her dad and grand dad came...

she tole grandad..." injection... hurts..."dah jeng tong tong..."!

just tored anohter part of my heart again...

however... glad the medical team has controlled her illness....

and stopped her fever gone up.. actually went down when she started her injections...

and she kept in the hospital for 3 days to make sure all her fever is completely gone...

and she is close too 100% cured... then we're released on the 2nd of Jan 2009...

i can only say... taking Stella to ER at 2 am was nothing....

staying in the hospital with her for 4 days 3 nights... was the worst new year i had...

now have to be more careful about her health... her hygene (was very cautious b4 already...)

and i learned how to collect urine from little ones....

we wasted nearly 6 bags... to get just 5cc... it wasn't easy at all.....for everything...

raising a kid is so hard.....

 

 

 

another n+1 birthday...

this year was the worst birthday ever...

couldn't decide where i want to have my birthday dinner and who i want to spend it with...

really suck... is this the down part of being married...?

got no one to complian it to... just can run my tears when no one's around...

guess only dou-dou knows mummy's feeling...

he belongs to me completely at the moment...

not too sure who is going to take him away from me when he comes out...

just like Stella... her grandma (father's side) likes to compete her popularity with me....

what the F... is wrong with "grand" people's mind...can't they just get it? i am the birth mum...

my daughter loves me more thats natural... whats to jealous about it? crazy woman!

and why does she have to make fun of my weak bladder?  i am 7 months pregnant....!!!!!

F! i am carrying her grandson... doesn't she get it?

she just have to make fun of it each time i go to the loo...

i really want my son to have my surname...

 

 

 

 

With baby Stella the 2nd baby seem to be more neglected...

now its time to update for Dou-Dou...

well, i think the doc told us about Dou-Dou's sex around 15th week...but he wasn't so sure so he said he will tell us again the next time...

then until 19th week... he fianlly announced that Duo-Dou is a boy!

now Stella is going to have a baby brother...

happy for everyone... (is that really so... i wonder...sometimes.. i think its the blood in my body that just dun want others to be satisfied with what they thought

and granted with their wishes....especially when it comes to in-laws...)

however... i am just glad Duo-Duo is a healthy baby...

now i can feel his kicking everyday...

once that Stella sat close to my tummy and felt Duo-Duo's kick..

and said "Duo-Duo kicked "pipi"!

and she also would say "Duo-Duo kicking mummy naughty!"

or she kicks from the outside... and Duo kicks from inside...

thats how poor i am so far...

our last check-up was last Thursday the 20th Nov, and Duo is 729g now...

crossing my fingers that he will be a handsome boy looks like his mum..hahha!

 

 

With baby Stella the 2nd baby seem to be more neglected...

now its time to update for Dou-Dou...

well, i think the doc told us about Dou-Dou's sex around 15th week...but he wasn't so sure so he said he will tell us again the next time...

then until 19th week... he fianlly announced that Duo-Dou is a boy!

now Stella is going to have a baby brother...

happy for everyone... (is that really so... i wonder...sometimes.. i think its the blood in my body that just dun want others to be satisfied with what they thought

and granted with their wishes....especially when it comes to in-laws...)

however... i am just glad Duo-Duo is a healthy baby...

now i can feel his kicking everyday...

once that Stella sat close to my tummy and felt Duo-Duo's kick..

and said "Duo-Duo kicked "pipi"!

and she also would say "Duo-Duo kicking mummy naughty!"

or she kicks from the outside... and Duo kicks from inside...

thats how poor i am so far...

our last check-up was last Thursday the 20th Nov, and Duo is 729g now...

crossing my fingers that he will be a handsome boy looks like his mum..hahha!

 

 

Congratulations to myself!!!

Its my very first mothers' day!

last year  Stella was still inside me....

and wooosh~~! time flies by just like that its an year already!

so let's see what i have done for my first mummys' day? 

its a sunday... so just like the other sundays...

took Stella to have breakfast then walk to the park..., went to see fountain and duckies!

thats what Stella's weekend morning like for past few months already...

then came back tug Stella in for her morning nap...

tidied up the house...well.. mostly were carry out by Daddy.... he said i have mothers' day everyday!

ok , ok , .... so i did help a little bit....

then i pumped Stella's first life boat....

well... its an inflated sitted lifesaver....

thats right... Stella had her debut for swimming in the pool!

not exactly swimming.... more like floatig.....

first she was scared... then she enjoyed it very much with lots of gigglings...

oh... i also had to cook for the lunch on mother's day...

i thought there are rules for "mummy no cooking" on mum's day....

how come it didnt apply on me...

anyways, at night just the usual again dinner at the in law's....

now... my in-law mother has to cook too? hmmm.... poor Mrs Chens....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Papa說這個農曆年一過Stella就兩歲了....

OMG...她才8個月馬上跳2歲...太可怕了...

難道Papa不知道女生的年齡是照日算的嗎....可是斤斤計較呢

Stella這個寒假和爸爸媽媽一起去了溪頭和阿里山...

她玩的很開心但是也被凍壞了...

會來就掛著兩道鼻水...讓媽媽心疼的不得了...

後悔帶她去玩...但是從她在探索新事物的表情和智能發展...

又覺得是非常值得的...或許她是很納悶...為啥3天都在坐車車...

可惜無法知道他的心理是如何想的....

Stella的發展一向是超前的...

3個月起會翻身...4個月就開始學爬行...

5個月能放手站5秒...會Hi 5...拍拍手...恭喜恭喜....

7個月會撒嬌的動作...bye bye 和hi hi 的揮手...

現在已經會說抱抱..對...和早就會的爸爸，媽媽。。。

她約在6/7個月就能辨識家裡的成員....

可包括爺爺家和外公家的成員呢!

目前最好的朋友是小阿姨送她的一隻TEDDY BEAR!

毎天早上起床都會和他先說說話再叫爸媽起床...

會huggie和kissie它呢!

真是個超口愛的小美女唷!

生命的喜悅            

俗語說得好：「養兒方知父母恩。」從沅鑫寶貝出生的那一刻起，我便有了更深一層的領悟。凝望著寶貝時，感覺好像回到小時候，父母親對我們的柔情慈愛頃刻間盈滿心頭，蔓延開來，原來這就是最甜蜜的負荷。  

不過，當ㄅㄚˇㄅㄚˊ的感覺真好！從親愛的老婆懷孕的那一刻起，我們便滿心期待小生命的到來，用心的做著萬全的準備，開心地討論著他是男是女，會長得像誰？我們告訴媽媽肚子裡的她－不管長得像ㄅㄚˇㄅㄚˊ或ㄇㄚˇㄇㄚˊ，自己要挑最好的基因唷！ 結果呢？寶貝沅鑫當然有乖乖聽話，選擇了最適合她的優質基因呢！

 生命真的好奇妙，在每次老婆產檢時，寶寶總是帶給我們許多的驚奇，每一階段寶貝都有不同的成長與變化，還曾經拍到她正在做仰臥起坐呢！更有趣的是，每次一邊放古典音樂，一邊講故事給她聽，臨睡前又告訴她－爸比和媽咪好愛妳唷，寶貝便會不斷地 “胎動”著，彷彿也在告訴我們，她也好愛我們，原來親子溝通是從在媽媽的肚子裡就要開始啦！

 我這個新手爸爸可是全程陪同寶貝出生的過程，深怕遺漏了每個生命的感動。直到她出生的一剎那，想到老婆的辛苦（當然當爸爸的我也很辛苦的度過了十個月，絕對沒有一斯斯的怠慢），又看到寶貝那麼漂亮可愛，我不禁濕了眼眶，心中有股莫名的感動，久久不能自己。

 寶貝的出生，使得原本已經非常親密的家族，有了更強的凝聚力。寶貝的一顰一笑、一舉一動，一直牽動著我們的心，看著她呀呀學語，第一次大笑，第一次翻身，第一次努力的撐起自己，第一次學爬，第一次站起來，第一次叫ㄅㄚˇㄅㄚˊ………一切的一切都在述說著許多生命的感動與奇蹟。

我們竭盡心力，並不是要給她最好的，而是希望她在擁有幸福的同時，也能有顆感恩體貼的心；我並不期待寶貝無災無難，只願給她在遇到困難與挫折時，有勇於面對的勇氣；在看見他人的困難時，有顆憐憫寬容的心。看著寶貝一點一滴的長大，才了解了－「生命的傳承」，就在生命的本身找到了答案。原本是我們在養育著小生命，沒想到卻是小生命在帶領我們領悟生命的意義。

 僅以這篇小小的文章獻給我辛苦的爸爸媽媽及我最愛的大女兒－老婆佩珊，以及小女兒－寶貝沅鑫，因為有你們，我的生命充滿了絢麗的色彩，有妳們真好。

 寶貝STELLA四個月了

媽媽也越來越忙碌...回家已經像是在住旅館的感覺

回到家幫STELLA洗澡，趁她奇模子漾時趕快匆忙的把自己也趕快洗好

再來就是陪小寶貝睡睡時間...

每次都想說等她睡了再起來做事...

結果不爭氣的身體完全被瞌睡蟲給打敗...

一覺到天亮...但是半夜還是會起來很多遍...

餵奶和換布布...

但是見到越來越聰明的寶貝就心滿意足

還有呢...Stella 也越來越會耍寶喔...

總是把我們逗的好開心呢~~~

可愛的Stella兩個月囉

每一個看過她的人都說她是越來越可愛哩

也越來越像媽媽...哈哈哈...因為他每天吃媽媽的母奶當然要多像媽咪一些些ㄟ

很努力的養她希望她能健康的快快長大，但是又很矛盾的希望她一直就是停留在小小的很古錐的時段。。。

真的是每天都將她抱緊緊在懷裡。。。感受無限的甜蜜。。。

當初的胎教真的很有用喔。。。

現在Stella 如果吵鬧...媽媽就會唱寶貝給他聽她就會安靜下來了...很神奇呢...

最近她在玩踢踢鋼琴玩具時，竟然會模仿玩具中動物的叫聲。。。

ㄏㄡˋ～！真是個聰明的孩子。。。

而且越來越愛笑。。。還有愛說話。。。外婆都叫她小麻雀。。。

將來一定要拿錄影的片子問她："在說什麼，翻譯一下吧"

Must be very fun...

我們家的寶貝越來越漂亮喔~~~!!!

照片中有一張是她睡覺時在偷笑唷

一張是和Papa(外公)一起拍的

還有躺在媽咪腿上的...媽咪的腿粉粗ㄅㄟ!!!!

Gosh~! A whole month has gone by....seems like it was only just yesterday!

睡眠不足的一個月....

滿屋麻油香的一個月...

連晚上都夢見鮭魚頭的一個月.....(每天吃鮭魚頭熬的湯)

為了奶水....為了讓小NINI能快快長大...

原來...生產陣痛並不是最痛苦的...

坐月子不能喝水和隨意吃東西才是最痛苦的...

也只能看在可愛女兒和辛苦外婆的份上...

忍了........................................

 

照片中....NINI睡在外婆的絲被上多麼享受呀~~~

 

 

 

距離小NINI出生已近兩週了...

生產過程的記憶就像昨日才發生過一樣...

來看媽咪的朋友們都問...真的很痛嗎?...

喔...不....不只是很痛...是TMD痛...

從進去報到的那一天開始...

10:30am起....醫生伯伯決定開始讓媽媽吃藥...

一小時一顆...吃6顆...護士阿姨還說一顆藥的成本是$55..一定有效的啦!

他們說催生就是弄假成真....以後我會解釋這句話了...非常的貼切!!!

經過了六小時...有規律性的宮縮...護士阿姨評估後說那我們可以先不打針吊點滴...

但是....在下午5點多...護士阿姨說收縮的頻率變差...趕快吃晚餐準備吊點滴....

吊了點滴後媽媽又被五花大綁在床上....

點滴在半小時後開始發生作用....

陣痛越來越強烈....還好一開始就說要打無痛分娩.....真是明智的抉擇

不過還是要等到開4CM才能打....當晚就NINI爸爸陪著媽媽一起奮鬥...

護士阿姨一直說要練習呼吸和不能用力....

所以一痛到不行時就只好請爸爸用力握住媽媽的雙手...(忘了要算這筆帳....)

爸爸被訓練到直接看儀器就能知道媽媽下一次陣痛的來臨....

所以媽媽能在3分鐘的間隔中偷偷睡一下....真的很痛....

奮鬥到隔天清晨6點20分...護士阿姨說你可以打無痛了~~~

哇...真是天使之音呀

打了無痛讓爸爸和媽媽能夠好好的休息睡覺

但是藥效只有1小時半....

媽媽很能忍耐都多拖半小時才再打下一針....

這樣打了三次吧...

開到6CM時....約下午1點半....這時醫生伯伯又出現了...

他宣佈要人工破水...

拿了一支長長的竹籤....好恐怖....

破完水後收縮更厲害了...

這時是爸爸抓手...外婆抓腳...就怕媽媽去捶牆壁~!!!

更想再打一劑無痛的藥....

請護士阿姨來打時....醫生伯伯又出現了

他一檢查說...已經9CM了...你還要打嗎?

聽了只好說...我忍...趕快把BABY生下來吧...

說了之後就後悔了....因為真的痛到不行....

痛到很想揍人....

這時一群護士阿姨出現了....開始教導要如何呼吸和用力...(當天整個醫院就只有我在生產，全部產房的人都出動了! VIP級的呢)

約10分鐘後...有如一整年...

被推進去產房了....

繼續重複著憋氣和用力...真的粉像在大便...

接著換到產台上...繼續我該做的事...

只見醫生和護士都好忙.....

接著爸爸出現了...拿著相機...好像觀光客....呵呵

約20分鐘後....當大家都準備好時...突然一群人都圍了過來..

在最痛的那一剎那....資深的護理長在我的肚肚上方用手肘一壓....

感到ㄍㄨˇㄌㄧㄩ的一下....

NINI 就出來了....

從最痛到生產一共約花了一小時多.....

一陣輕鬆感...所有的痛都不見了....

再來就聽到NINI洪亮的哇哇聲...

然後聽到NINI爸爸跟他說....乖乖不哭爸爸在這裡...

NINI竟然就不哭了...把護士阿姨都嚇了一跳呢!

在產台上的媽媽...跟醫生伯伯說...

"我好想去海邊喔....躺在沙灘上...吃挫冰...."

醫生伯伯冷冷的說....一切等你做完月子在說吧.....

哎...........

接著NINI就被抱到媽媽的身上做肌膚接觸...

小小的生命抱在懷裡....

心中充滿著成就感...

眼淚在眼框中打轉...

一切真的好值得...

................

只是....

在陣痛非常痛時....

跟爸爸說...

下一個我要剖腹啦~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~!!!!!!!!!

 

 

 

五月十五日下午二時五十分，媽咪奮鬥了將近29小時終於把小NINI給生下來了!

小NINI在媽咪的肚子裡住的太舒服不想出來

只好在14日前往催生

催生不可怕...

是陣痛比較可怕

所有的生產過程都經歷了...

改天再上來繼續把故事完成...

先POST照片吧~!

 

今天去產檢，醫生伯伯說。。。

小NINI這兩天再不出來，就要在星期天去催生。。。

聽起來很可怕。。。

爸爸和媽媽都希望小NINI能夠選一個她喜歡的時間出來，

但是現在又怕她越來越大隻。。。

真是兩難呀～！

小NINI要幫爸爸和媽媽呀...

哎...只能說是她是個有個性的小baby...

還是太老神在在了......

 

可愛的小撲滿滿38週囉~!!!

上星期五去產檢...醫生伯伯說nini已經3400g了呢...

很認真的長肉肉呢!

nini的腿長已經超越了40週的長度了...呵呵...可愛的長腿美妹喔!

媽媽最近感冒了...一直咳嗽咳不停....真是難為nini了...

醫生伯伯竟然不給媽媽吃藥...還說這樣可以幫助提早陣痛...挖哩勒

真是敗給醫生伯伯了...

nini的臉臉現在都皺在一起囉...被媽媽的小肚肚擠成像隻小沙皮狗狗...

嘟嘟的嘴嘴和翹翹鼻子...實在是太可愛了

很想能趕快捏捏她那胖胖的臉頰喔

nini加油要在爸爸和媽媽和你約定好的時間出來喔~~~!!!